If you wonder how to last longer during oral sex without ejaculating, here we will give you the answer. The first thing you should know is that it all depends on a number of factors, including how much energy your partner has, whether either of you is sleepy, and what experience they have with oral sex.

While you certainly don’t want your partner’s mouth to go numb, or his jaw to ache from overuse, chances are you do want the experience to last longer than a minute or two.

Lasting longer during oral sex: Tips to avoid ejaculating quickly

If you have a tendency to get too excited when you have oral sex, here are some tips that will help you prolong the experience for longer.

Make your partner keep the tempo

Encourage your partner to lick and suck your penis at different speeds instead of moving their head up and down like they are running a marathon. Your penis will experience varied sensations when your partner’s rhythm picks up. Consequently, your penis will not be able to settle into a ‘rhythm’ so easily, which will reduce your chances of climaxing.

Also, slow movements will give you a few moments to regain control if you are used to fast movements and vice versa.

Don’t let your partner use their hands

If you are used to stroking the shaft of your penis while you masturbate, you could link that feeling with being able to climax. Therefore, if your partner caresses your shaft with her hands while placing her mouth on the tip of your penis, you are likely to ejaculate faster than usual.

Consequently, if you want to last longer during oral sex, consider asking your partner to keep their hands free for a while. You can also ask her to use her hands to touch the rest of your body instead of the shaft of your penis, if you want to extend the experience.

Let your partner suck on other parts of your body

Another tip to last longer during oral sex is to allow your partner to occasionally use her tongue on the rest of your crotch. Whether you’re both interested, ask her if she’d be willing to lick your inner thighs, testicles, or even anus.

This could be part of some basic oral sex, or you could make it a game by telling your partner that they can lick any part of your body except your penis.

Interrupting fellatio from time to time

You can also ask for a break if you’re worried about cumming too soon. You can move on to penetrative sex, reverse the situation so that you are the one to perform oral sex on your partner, mutually masturbate, watch pornography together. Anything that works best for both of you.

Regardless of which option you choose, stopping oral sex from time to time will help you avoid ejaculation. Also, focusing on anything else to keep you in the mood will ensure that you are ready for when your partner wants to continue oral sex.

Do oral sex in 69 position

While 69 can be exciting, it is not a position that generally results in an orgasm. This is because you will be trying to get your partner excited, while she does the same. Therefore, you will not be able to fully concentrate on the exciting pleasure that you are experiencing.

Get into position, let your partner do his thing, and focus all your attention on giving her an orgasm. It is very likely that you will find that you can continue for a long time.

How long should oral sex last?

If you’ve ever done oral sex, you’ve definitely pondered: How long should this last? After all, you want your partner to have a great time, but even though you are a generous person, you don’t want to do it all the time. So where do you find the middle ground?

Time is actually very subjective, but it doesn’t last as long as it is shown in adult movies. Oral sex can be more exciting for men than penetration.

Most men’s sexual intercourse lasts between five and seven minutes. Considering the above, oral sex with the aforementioned tips should last around seven minutes.

Of course it also depends on the type of oral sex that is being given. I mean, is it just foreplay, or is it the climax point? If it’s the former, then a few minutes is great.

Sex therapists recommend that oral sex last about 10 minutes. However, it is not about ten minutes of raising and lowering your head. As stated before, oral sex should include licking and sucking, as variation is key.

Ultimately, slow, prolonged, loving, and thoughtful oral sex is preferable to fast, intense oral sex.