You will have heard on many occasions the importance of good relaxation techniques when having sex. There are many reasons why you are not able to relax when having sex with your partner: daily stress, psychological problems related to how you handle intimacy and openness, accumulated resentment…

The problem that can arise from this is that you feel dissatisfied in your relationship and seek pleasure outside of it. This, in the long run, will create distance between you and your partner, which can turn into an irreconcilable disagreement if it is not resolved in time.

How can Tantra help in this? Below we will detail the benefits and techniques of tantric massage for these situations.

Relaxation techniques

First of all, when we talk about Tantra we are not only talking about eroticism and sexuality, but also about specific techniques that help you immerse yourself in a state where you can leave your mind blank and focus on the moment. In a way, we could equate this Zen state to the state provided by mindfulness.

A good Tantra massage guides you, through breathing techniques, relaxing massage, tantric hugs that have healing properties, to explore yourself but at the same time, to gain enough confidence and the necessary relaxation to be present in the moment.

The tantric masseur or tantric masseuse will help you achieve this mental state of connection and relaxation as they are therapists trained in Tantra techniques. Any type of accumulated stress will be dissipated immediately.

You will gain self-confidence

If the reason why you are unable to relax during sex comes from a psychological reason, such as complex or shame, a Tantric massage will help you experience fullness in this aspect.

Tantra considers all bodies as if they were valuable tools of pleasure and connection, so any stereotype or physical complex is nullified by the powerful effects of Tantra. In case you have doubts about your appearance, weight, height or any other aspect that you feel insecure about, we assure you that a tantric massage is the best therapy to overcome these barriers that you put on yourself. For Tantra, the only important thing is that you feel pleasure and achieve spiritual elevation through sexual pleasure.

The Tantra masseur or the Tantra masseuse will pamper your body as if it were sacred, offering you caresses and complete dedication that will make you gain confidence in your own physical appearance. Suddenly, you will feel that no matter what you look like, your whole being is valuable. This, consequently, will allow you to relax and experience greater pleasure in sex, since you will be free of inhibitions.

Recover the love for your partner

Although it seems that a tantric massage and recovering the love towards your partner seem to be two totally opposite notions, in reality, a good tantric massage promotes and focuses on strengthening the ties that may have deteriorated over time.

If you have been unable to feel connected with your partner for a long time and, therefore, you are not able to relax during sex either, book an erotic massage for couples and allow a Tantra professional to guide you towards love again, through advanced Tantra techniques whose purpose is connection, harmony and spiritual elevation through bodily sensations and eroticism.

Through the touch and the sensations that you will receive and be able to offer to your partner, an atmosphere of union, peace, sensuality and relaxation will be created that will allow you to reconnect and recover the intimacy that may have been lost over time. Little by little, you will feel that you are able to relax with your partner, that problems and resentments evaporate in the sea of ​​pleasant sensations that both of you are experiencing and that immense love floods your chest.

If you wish, you can also interact with your partner in a couples massage and offer your love through sensual caresses all over their body.

What are the resources used by tantric massage to relax?

As we have already mentioned, there are several ways in which a Tantra massage can induce you to a state of absolute relaxation and concentration. Next, we make a list of our own techniques and resources that you can find in our center that contribute to your relaxation:

Tantric music: while you are receiving your massage, you will receive the rhythmic waves of Tantra music, which will help you focus on the harmonious rhythm and immerse yourself in it. The music in the center is carefully selected so that it contributes to our purpose of completely relaxing you and helping you disconnect from any intrusive thoughts.

The environment: the environment of our center is arranged to offer you the greatest comfort, both visually, physically and mentally. The tatamis are comfortable, the decoration is visually pleasing, the incense in the air will delight your senses… Relaxation is guaranteed for all your senses.

Breathing techniques: the masseuses will guide you to learn inhalation and exhalation techniques that will allow you to leave your mind blank and focus only on the wave of unforgettable sensations that you will receive. They will instruct you on various breathing techniques that you can use later in life to ease anxiety or daily stress.


Tantra techniques: Tantra hugs are physical approaches that aim to relax you, reopen your sense of intimacy, improve your spiritual connection with the other and allow you to feel vulnerable. Later, you can try this technique with your partner and feel how you merge in this spiritual embrace that opens the chakras of both your chest and your belly.

Caresses and pampering: the dedication towards you will be so complete that there will be no way that you will not relax; The professionalism of our tantric masseuses and their sympathy will allow you to learn to relax in sex and improve your sexual life through the rise in self-esteem that you will experience.